If it’s one of the first few dates, the questions asked and comments shared should be fairly generic.At this point, each of you is trying to get enough information quickly to determine whether there is sufficient interest, attraction and similarity to support having a full-fledged relationship.
In the Myers-Briggs Personality Indicator, I am the personality type ENFJ.
How many red flags do you need in order to run away and save yourself? Time will tell, his mask will drop, that is why he is pushing for commitment, he wants to hook you before you see the real person under the facade.
By themselves they don’t scream “Run for cover” , especially if you have no experience with a narcissist, but if you have half a dozen of these red flags you need to run away as fast as you can and if you can’t bring yourself to dump him because you think he is an exception to the rule and you don’t believe me; at least slow things down.
But time and experience should help us navigate through future relationships in a much better way.
It’s essential to get to know in every possible way before you move into a committed relationship.