Everybody knows the pressure of a first date: Searching for that perfect outfit. Dissecting each detail when it's over to check for mistakes.Dating can make even the most confident person lose his cool.The three legs of the boomer, dating triangle are boomer women, casual sex, and unrealistic expectations.A number of women have written about first date sexual pressure, which makes me wonder if some men’s brain synapses are misfiring.She diveth not, she leapeth not from the pier; but by gentle shocks and cries of protest she entereth slowly; yet when the waters of love encompass her, then she is supported.She swimmeth in her joy; she floateth on the tide of happiness.Hurry not a woman's favor; neither forcer her hastily to surrender to thee.
Why should a boomer woman who helped us end a war, fought for and won her legal rights, had a career, raised our kids often as a single mom, and spent a lifetime building a network of supportive friends, be flattered to be asked to sexually satisfy a total stranger?Learn how to avoid the mistakes made by 90 percent of searchers and create a profile that captures your strong points and stands out from the crowd.Every word counts in your opener, including your user name. Your dating "handle" should be anonymous yet descriptive. You might want to zero in on an activity or interest, like I did with my online ID, Golf Nut.Knuckle Dragger A case in point is the boomer guy who shared his scoring system for dates in his comment on a dating article I’d written.It’s based on the number of dates (3) he’s willing to go on with a woman without having sex before he dumps her. While he’s a throwback to the 60s when sex was mostly casual, and rarely meaningful, I thought that every boomer guy understood that first date sex isn’t on most boomer women’s radar screens.