Sometimes it’s hard to see the signs he wants to make things a bit more serious and take your relationship to… Give it a little time and it’s not really that hard.
Guys tend to make their intentions fairly obvious with their actions.
You see, a guy can be somewhat interested, but not into it.
Instead of seeing it for what it is, women make up excuses and justifications to rationalize the bad behavior away.
"Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date: finish whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person," he says, so provided your date's not running out with an "emergency text from a roommate" after twenty minutes, it's an easy first sign that there wasn't any major fire to put out.
When your date wants to spend time with you alone instead of calling in backup for a group date, says Santos, it likely means that he's comfortable around you and wants to spend more time getting to know you.
He's interested in you as a whole, and not just a whole night.
Now the big question: Does he want to date you or just hook up?
He says he really cares about you, but doesn’t really act like it.
And while you’re on this topsy-turvy ride, all you want to know is does this guy like me or not?!
And, to make matters worse, when he actually does, it's usually something lame like, “Not much, you?
” or “That's cool.”You know he really likes you when he holds a conversation.