So here is my advice about dating people with kids.
Take from it what you will: Wait Even though my boyfriend was eager to introduce me to his kiddo early on, we waited a long time before it actually happened.
If you recently started dating someone new AND you have kids, it can be tough to decide when you should introduce them to the new person in your life.
If you’re Dating with Dignity, you shouldn’t find it too difficult to make that choice. If you’re casually dating someone and don’t see them as a part of your forseeable future, introducing them to your kids is definitely unnecessary.
Next, the setting and length of the first introduction is crucial to success.
If you know that you are really in love and do not mind constant conflict, this could be a good choice for you.
I just know that being in a nurturing environment now with my third husband has made it one million times easier to have a life.
When you feel you have made a good choice and are ready to move on to the next step, there are several things you can do.
You have to make sure you're serious and your partner is serious before you bring the kiddos into the mix.
It's not fair to the kids if you aren't going to stick around.